Trust
Trust according to me is, is to get to know the people and trust them to be who they are. And not trust them for who we want them to be. Because when this does not happen we have the feeling of " I dont trust you ". which is quite wrong.
For me, i belive that there is a lot of difference between trust and expectation. Yet it has striking resemblence. People who belive that, they Trust some one completely need to know this, it is practically impossible to trust anyone. And it is a terrible fact. Whether we like it or not. Psychologically there is nothing in the world, that you can put your faith, your trust, or your belief in. Neither your gods, nor your science can save you, can bring you psychological certainty; and you have to accept that you can trust in absolutely nothing.
But this is true only for people who call their expectations to be trust. Ofcourse everyone can be trusted for something or the other. People can be trusted for their bad nature or good nature.
The thing which i hate the most nowdays is people judge future by its past. Not all. But few. Why do we not give a person a chance to prove himself.? I dont know about all, but in general, why do we have the feeling of " i dont trust him " after the person doesnt satisfy your expectations? How do we judge a person that he is not to be trusted? In short what i feel is, we dont trust ourselves to trust that person..
It is really complicated to state something about a person related to trust and faith. Because we usually make statements considering the bad things about a person, which sometimes are situational. Situations sometimes make people untrusted. But what matters the most is, the person should be true to his heart, should know what he wants, should let others know what he wants, and if he has guilt, he should have the confidence on himself on not repeating that again.. if this is the case with a person., i belive he can be trusted.
We all in our lives have broken someone's trust. We sometimes realise it. Sometimes we dont.
It is really sad to know people who dont belive on paintings, but belive on photographs. Some people dont belive paintings because they are man made, but the fail to notice the feelings put in the paintings. This can be related to trust. We often fail to know the EXACT reason for which the person has lied, and we start making statements as " I dont trust him " failing to notice the reason for which he has lied. The reason sometimes counts. There can be alot of emotions behind a reason for which a person lies. Sometimes people are trusted even more, after their reasons are known.
Basically i have written all this, for only one purpose and that is, to help people who face such types of situations. It is really childish if a person decides not to trust a certain person for few wrong things commited by him Having a vaild reason. It really should not happen to any one. It does not mean to trust a thief that he would not steal things. But if you come to know that theif has changed his mind or changed his nature of work, or had some reasons for which he stole things, he can be forgiven, because people change. And they change for a reason.
I would also like to tell you all this:
I belive to Trust again and again. so When the trust level gets high enough, I belive people transcend apparent limits, discover new and awesome abilities for which they were previously unaware..
Trust according to me is, is to get to know the people and trust them to be who they are. And not trust them for who we want them to be. Because when this does not happen we have the feeling of " I dont trust you ". which is quite wrong.
For me, i belive that there is a lot of difference between trust and expectation. Yet it has striking resemblence. People who belive that, they Trust some one completely need to know this, it is practically impossible to trust anyone. And it is a terrible fact. Whether we like it or not. Psychologically there is nothing in the world, that you can put your faith, your trust, or your belief in. Neither your gods, nor your science can save you, can bring you psychological certainty; and you have to accept that you can trust in absolutely nothing.
But this is true only for people who call their expectations to be trust. Ofcourse everyone can be trusted for something or the other. People can be trusted for their bad nature or good nature.
The thing which i hate the most nowdays is people judge future by its past. Not all. But few. Why do we not give a person a chance to prove himself.? I dont know about all, but in general, why do we have the feeling of " i dont trust him " after the person doesnt satisfy your expectations? How do we judge a person that he is not to be trusted? In short what i feel is, we dont trust ourselves to trust that person..
It is really complicated to state something about a person related to trust and faith. Because we usually make statements considering the bad things about a person, which sometimes are situational. Situations sometimes make people untrusted. But what matters the most is, the person should be true to his heart, should know what he wants, should let others know what he wants, and if he has guilt, he should have the confidence on himself on not repeating that again.. if this is the case with a person., i belive he can be trusted.
We all in our lives have broken someone's trust. We sometimes realise it. Sometimes we dont.
It is really sad to know people who dont belive on paintings, but belive on photographs. Some people dont belive paintings because they are man made, but the fail to notice the feelings put in the paintings. This can be related to trust. We often fail to know the EXACT reason for which the person has lied, and we start making statements as " I dont trust him " failing to notice the reason for which he has lied. The reason sometimes counts. There can be alot of emotions behind a reason for which a person lies. Sometimes people are trusted even more, after their reasons are known.
Basically i have written all this, for only one purpose and that is, to help people who face such types of situations. It is really childish if a person decides not to trust a certain person for few wrong things commited by him Having a vaild reason. It really should not happen to any one. It does not mean to trust a thief that he would not steal things. But if you come to know that theif has changed his mind or changed his nature of work, or had some reasons for which he stole things, he can be forgiven, because people change. And they change for a reason.
I would also like to tell you all this:
I belive to Trust again and again. so When the trust level gets high enough, I belive people transcend apparent limits, discover new and awesome abilities for which they were previously unaware..
Hey. It's nice how you've come up with so many different points about this one topic. Really liked this line : Neither your gods, nor your science can save you, can bring you psychological certainty; and you have to accept that you can trust in absolutely nothing. And also the ending.
ReplyDeletethanks for reading..your the 1st reader of this blog..congrats..haha
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